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Ep. 311: Cultivating Friendships

Jan 20, 202633m

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Contact us. We’d love to serve you Request a stay at a Shepherd’s House Location Give financially to support the work of helping pastors thrive Write a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify Resources (00:43) Introducing the Topic: Christian friendship, especially among pastors (2:00) Biblical foundations: Proverbs 17:17, Ecclesiastes 4, Jonathan & David (04:54) Challenges for men in forming close friendships (07:00) Defining friendship—surface vs. deep bonds (10:00) Men’s reluctance to invest in friendships (12:37) Pastors’ relationships: transactional vs. genuine (14:02) Qualities of true friendship: presence, safety, loyalty, emotional connection (22:00) Cultivating friendship: prayer, planning, risk-taking, listening, being present (30:00) Sanctifying influence—“iron sharpens iron” (31:31) Final word and prayer